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Ingredients

  • .25 Ounce all spice liqueur
  • .5 Ounce lemon juice
  • .5 Ounce demerara syrup
  • 2 Ounces ginger infused bourbon, like Virgil Kaine Ginger Infused Bourbon
  • 2 Ounces apple cider, hot
  • Apple slice, for garnish
  • Grated cinnamon, for garnish

Directions

Dry shake all ingredients (cider not included). Pour into a mug and top with hot cider. Garnish with an apple wedge and grated cinnamon.

Nutritional Facts

Servings4

Calories Per Serving58

Sugar5gN/A

Carbs5g2%

Vitamin C1mg2%

Calcium2mgN/A

Folate (food)0.7µgN/A

Folate equivalent (total)0.7µg0.2%

Iron0.2mg0.8%

Magnesium1mgN/A

Phosphorus2mgN/A

Potassium21mg1%

Sodium3mgN/A

Sugars, added3gN/A

Have a question about the nutrition data? Let us know.

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The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


The Most Unpredictable Time of the Year: ADHD Holiday Survival Tips

I look forward to the holidays all year. Nothing makes me happier than giving gifts, baking cookies, wrapping presents, and enjoying my family. But, so often my holiday cookies come sprinkled with anxiety, worry, and exhaustion. Because, when you&rsquore parenting a child with ADHD, sensory issues, or other social disorders, you can expect your pumpkin pie to be served with a large helping of sensory overload, inappropriate responses, meltdowns, and disappointments.

And, while the holidays are often a time to revel in the unexpected, many kids and adults are simply unable to enjoy these aspects of the season. In fact, the unpredictability, lack of routine, and heightened expectations can set them off. There&rsquos no holiday, no time off from ADHD and the struggles that many of our special needs children face. And, all too often what results during this season is the exact opposite of a Hallmark greeting card.

While the season may never be what I expected, it&rsquos not impossible to have a peaceful, enjoyable holiday season free of epic tantrums or battles. Follow these critical tips to stop your holiday celebrations from unraveling.

Be Structured

During the holiday months our calendars fill quickly with special events, shopping, etc. This often requires us to change normal routines and schedules to accommodate the season&rsquos merriment. But, a jam packed schedule can negatively impact a child who needs routine, structure, and predictability. The unpredictability coupled with late nights, unexpected changes, and heightened social requirements can spell disaster. They need you to be in control with a set plan in place to feel safe, calm, and meet the season&rsquos challenges.

During these months, create a calendar in advance and make sure your child has access to it so that they know what is coming and can set expectations. Also, be willing to space events out, especially if they involve your child&rsquos stress triggers such as meeting new people, loud noise, crowds, etc. As much as possible stick to your normal routines. This means get up at the same time, go through the normal morning requirements, and stay on meds and on diet. Keeping your child on their diet can be hard during a season where sugar, dye, and over-eating seem to be seasonal sports. But, I promise you&rsquoll be thankful you did when you see everyone else&rsquos kids spin out of control.

Be Prepared

The saying &ldquofailure to plan is a plan to fail&rdquo couldn&rsquot be more accurate in this situation. The holidays put us all in situations with higher expectations and social and emotional requirements that can be very challenging, but nearly impossible for children who have special needs. From meeting long lost relatives who want close physical affection, to constantly being tempted by off-diet foods, to spending hard earned money on others, your children will be tested in new ways during this season. Any of which could sabotage the fun if not carefully considered and planned for.

So, what does this look like in our home? Before parties we practice proper social expectations and conversation starters, discuss who exactly will be there, and arm our son with a few tools like gum, a book, and even conversation cards that help him to feel more comfortable and regulated.

Taking sensory tools like gum or a weighted vest that encourage regulation can be the ticket to a fun holiday experience for everyone. We also discuss expectations with those we will see and are careful not to put our son in situations where he cannot succeed. For us this means that we do not visit Santa as our son is scared of anything in costumes. It also means we choose 1-2 parties each season rather than saying &ldquoyes&rdquo to every invitation. This will look different for each family but the key is to think through your commitments and your child&rsquos triggers and then plan coping strategies ahead of time.

Be Flexible and Intentional

The many requirements of the holidays can create stress for even those with the best coping and social skills. For those who struggle, they can be even tougher and cause withdrawal, depression, and a general hatred of the season. You simply can&rsquot do it all and trying will poison the entire experience, especially when we raise the bar too high for those who struggle with ADHD or sensory issues. That&rsquos why it&rsquos important to focus on only what matters most and prioritize those gifts above all else.

In our home we call it &ldquoliving with intention.&rdquo We discuss what matters most to us about the holidays and then focus our energy, calendar, and attention on only those things that fit into that picture of the season. For us, it&rsquos gifting what we love and spending quality time with those whom we love. So, we don&rsquot spend a ton of money at the mall but our grocery bill almost doubles so that we can cook traditional recipes and give food gifts to teachers, bus drivers, and friends. Focus your schedule on those holiday memories and experiences that matter the most to you, and be flexible and willing to say &ldquono&rdquo to the rest. This will create a much more meaningful and rich holiday for your entire family and limit the times a meltdown or struggle can happen. And, if something just isn&rsquot working, like a service project or holiday craft, scrap it. No recipe or handmade ornament is worth ruining the season and damaging relationships!

Be Active

Baby, it&rsquos cold outside! So, &rsquotis the season to be sedentary, right? Wrong. Exercise is critical for physical, spiritual, and emotional health. Exercise engages the attention system and enables proper executive functioning including sequencing, memory, and organization. And, it improves our attitude. During exercise the brain releases chemicals that regulate attention, mood, and pleasure. So, if you want your little elves to stay focused, regulated, and happy this holiday season, be sure that exercise remains on your to do list.

Consider creating an indoor play gym equipped with a small trampoline, mini basketball hoop, hula hoop, and jump rope in your garage or basement. Do indoor obstacle courses that include running up and down stairs or crab crawling. Or, exercise the old fashioned way by bundling up and playing out in the snow as a family. Keep movement engaging, fun, and part of the daily routine to minimize complaining.

Be A Parent First

We all wear many hats in life &mdash employee, sister, brother, church member, etc. And, during the holidays our to-do lists and roles often double because of the nature of the season. It&rsquos so important that we remember that we are parents first. This is hard for an extroverted holiday lover like myself. I want to say yes to every party, make every kind of cookie, and sing every carol starting in September. But, this just doesn&rsquot work well for my mover and shaker. While I&rsquod attend every party and talk to every distant relative, my son is terrified of new situations, homes, and people. As much as I love my grandma&rsquos cinnamon coffee cake, my son is gluten free now. Parenting involves sacrifice, even during the holidays. So, I have to remember who I am first the other 10 months out of the year: his mom. And that&rsquos the best gift I can give him, being present, engaged, and focused on helping him to navigate and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible.

While it takes effort, planning, and commitment, being structured, flexible, prepared, and active during the holidays will put more joy under the tree.

If you&rsquod like to know more about how to parent and educate a child with learning struggles, you can visit us at homeschoolacademy.com or give us a call at 800-863-1474.

Jessica Parnell

Hello everyone! I’m Jessica Parnell — mom, homeschool evaluator, teacher, and president of Bridgeway Academy. In my 20+ years of experience as a homeschool mom and evaluator, I have had the privilege of meeting homeschoolers that take a variety of approaches to their education. It is their many stories and successes that inspire me in my own homeschooling and I love to pass on the knowledge that I have gained from them to other homeschooling families. The one constant that always remains true is that there’s no such thing as a “cookie cutter child.” Each child is fearfully and wonderfully made and as a result, learns and functions differently. It’s our job to ensure that we’re raising each child to fulfill their individual purpose and when we can teach in a way that inspires them, we are on our way to homeschool success. When I’m not writing or teaching my children, I like to ski, write and participate in triathlons. I graduated from Kutztown University with a Bachelor of Science in Education and a Masters in English and I am currently pursuing a degree in Neuroleadership.


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